I need help really bad!! I have a five year old son. He goes to the bathroom by himself and we have given him wipes to use when he has a bowel movement but lately whenever he needs to go, instead of going, he puts his hands in his pants and plays with it. This of course gets poop everywhere! After a few minutes he will eventually go on to the bathroom. I have tried everything to stop this, spanking, one on one talks about cleanliness and just yelling but nothing is helping. Does anyone have any advice? I could use it. Thanks.