Its so difficult when you love someone and you are starting a family together and not one person on your side is happy for you. I wish my family would have reacted the way his did, however, they acted in the complete opposite. My mom actually made me choose last night between him and them...how do you do that? I mean thats your mom....but thats the father of your child. I never thought it would come to such a selfish question on their behalf. why would you ever make your child choose? as hard as it is for me to leave and know that i will not be able to forgive them...all i can think about is my son/or daughter. I dont want to make the same mistakes with them my parents made with me. It breaks my heart that they may not end up knowing their grandparents on my side the way they should....but i feel that there is nothing i can do. I love my bf and he is so excited about the baby, to turn my back on him would have been the worst decision i would have made. He doesnt know why i left, he just knows that i was stressed and felt it best. It would break his heart to know that they behaved that way...but he would be happy i removed my self from a stressful situation....this is suppose to be the happiest time in my life...my first born...and i feel like in ways its the most difficult and saddest....