The best things I could not have surrived without is the mony wrap and the Graco snug and ride 35 carseat. My little one hated the other 2 cAresears we had. The second she was in it, screamed till she got out, which then she would be in the mony wrap everywhere we went. The second she got in the wrap, she slept. Thsexist time she goONI. The Graco Snug And Ride 35, she slept?  Now she is super content with the carseat. She still goes in the wrap, im able to vacuum, do laundry, start dinner, everything with her right there. I been able to breast feed her while wrapped up andstill have hands to do other things. My husband uses the wrap as well. She's getting older and we are able todoug her in different positio s so she can see the world! Love these items!