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Did your breastfeeding plans change?
10 months ago  ::  Aug 20, 2012 - 3:50PM #1
I had such high hopes for breastfeeding when I was pregnant.  I wasn't sure how long I would do it for, but I knew it was best for baby.  I was able to bf my son for 3 months until his tummy troubles got to the point where we needed to be able to better regulate what he was getting and switched to formula.  With my daughter, she spent the first few months of life in and out of the hospital with health issues.  I breastfed until her 3rd hospital stay and my milk dried up.  I contribute it to stress.  I know there are things I could have done to try and get my supply back but to be honest I couldn't even think straight with having a 4 year old 3 hours from me and me in the hospital with my sick baby.  Anyway!  I just wondered if you planned to breastfeed for a certain amount of time and stopped early for any reason or if you did it for much longer than you planned.  Smile
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10 months ago  ::  Aug 21, 2012 - 8:11AM #2
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I think every child is different.  With my oldest, I didn't have a set amount of time in mind to breastfeed.  However, when she refused to eat any type of baby food or cereal, it quickly became apparent that we were going to be breastfeeding until she could eat table food.  She also would not take a bottle when I was gone.  She was not a fussy baby at all, though, but then she would keep me up half the night eating.  To wean her, I ended up leaving her with my parents for a weekend.  That was difficult on all of us (and painful) since she had only been nursing still.  That was when she was just over a year.


With my 2nd, I planned on going at least a year.  However, I had to go back to work after 3 months, and the only place I could pump was a bathroom stall.  The pump wasn't the best, either, but after 1 month, and me not being able to go when my milk would let down and only getting a couple of ounces during the day at work, we switched her to formula.


With my 3rd, I knew I was staying home after I had her so I planned on at least a year again.  We made the mistake of never introducing a bottle to her so we could never go anywhere without her.  I didn't make it to a year with her, either because she had other plans.  One day, at around 9 months, she decided she wanted nothing to do with it, and she never looked back.


My 4th I am still nursing.  My goal with her had been a year, and we hit that last Friday.  She is really only nursing in the morning and at night.  She eats table food and has sippy cups the rest of the day.  I guess I am planning to go as long as she wants, but it needs to stop BEFORE the next one gets here because I don't think I'm cut out for tandem nursing.  I have been back at work since she was 7 weeks, and there have been times where it has been difficult and many times when I could have given up.  However, I stuck with it, and I am so glad I did.  We did have to supplement with formula at times, but I felt that was better than switching over entirely.

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10 months ago  ::  Aug 31, 2012 - 12:29AM #3
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My plan changed, but in a good way. I just wanted to try it but I couldn't imagine myself doing it. I wanted to do what was best for our baby so my goal was 6 weeks, I almost gave up during that time but I had a great support system.


I ended up starting off with a six week gaol for all my babies and ended up breast feeding them all for exactly one year. My first two got sippy cups for their first birthday:)


The third child was so hard for me to ween. I ended up weening her at about 16 months.


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8 months ago  ::  Oct 04, 2012 - 4:24PM #4

i think all plans change, kids/babies change them for us. lol


with my 1st i used formula and didnt even attempt breastfeeding with her.  all my mom friends at the time gave me advice on just using formula, and between it being a surprise pregnancy and me not having any other advice i just went with it. i was also working full time and had no clue about anything baby related such as pumping...


my 2nd i intended to try it and go a year. he was horrible at nursing and we could not get the latch down at all. i almost gave up, but i tried breastfeeding, pumping, pumping and feeding but all that lasted about 2 months because i just dried up and got less and less each pumping.  i had tons of support, but sometimes thats not enough. went back to work, still full time at 3 months and kinda got depressed because someone decided to tell me a story on how well nursing went for them :o/


with my 3rd i wanted to give it another try.  i didnt even set a time frame due to my last experience. she started out great so then i figured we'd go to at least 6 months but she ended up nursing until 11 months, when she just started biting and losing interest. this time i was only working part time, and only had to pump once a day. not sure if that helped or if she was just that good!


im on #4 now and shes only 2 weeks, but so far doing great. hope to get at least 6 months- 1 year! still  part time at work but hubby wants me to be a SAHM, not sure what i wanna do but as for the breastfeeding, ill leave it up to her!

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