my due date is may 1 2013, im all excited and am hoping my baby makes it to birth. i am excited to tell ppl  but my soon to be mother in law took that away from me the day she found out. which was the same day as me. she ruined my christmas idea of annoucing the big news. now i dnt know wat to do its not as thrilling to me to plan my big christmas annoucment. wat should i do and how should i handle the situation because she also wants to tag along to an ultra sound to find out the gender since me and my fiance want to wait till its born.. im afriad that if she does tag along she will tell everyone and ruin it for me and him.. i lvoe her like my own mom but i want this to be a big thing for me as well and shes making it out to be hers. wat should i do without breaking her heart