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3 years ago ::
Jul 30, 2010 - 1:44PM
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What is the one piece of parenting advice you wish someone had told you sooner?
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3 years ago ::
Aug 04, 2010 - 5:26PM
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You are your child's own best advocate -- no one cares as much about your kid as you do and you know what's best for him/her. So don't listen to others' advice, unless of course you agree with it!
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3 years ago ::
Aug 12, 2010 - 5:00PM
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That your child will copy EVERYTHING you do - so be careful OR take advantage. I have watched my daughter try to put on my bra, use a piece of toilet paper to dust the window sills, and turn just about any object with buttons into a remote control pointed at the television. You learn a lot when your child mimics your everyday behaviors...
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3 years ago ::
Aug 12, 2010 - 5:34PM
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Know that you do, you really do, make a difference in your child's life. People like to talk about the influence of peers, of teachers/coaches, and all that—and of course those people are important influencers in your child's life. But YOU are tops. All of those family dinners you force the family to eat together, all of those hours spent reading night-night books, all the times you make sure his or her favorite shirt is clean, it all matters A LOT.
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3 years ago ::
Aug 12, 2010 - 6:03PM
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Here's a story with some interesting advice from Motherboard Moms (and one dad doc!).
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3 years ago ::
Aug 16, 2010 - 10:40AM
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My sister-in-law swears by her structured routine for my nephew. I have never been the routine type, but she says it's imperative, though inconvenient at times. So, make a routine and stick to it! Consistency is key.
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3 years ago ::
Aug 16, 2010 - 11:34AM
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I think the best piece of parenting advice is "trust your instincts". Other moms/parents can give you all the stories about what happened to them in certain situations, but ultimately you have to find what works best for you and YOUR famly....it won't necessarily be what everyone else experienced. When it comes to my kids, I most certainly listen to recommendations by doctors, teachers, etc. but I ultimately make the decision based on how I feel since I know my kids better than anyone else. Too many times in this society, we are pushed to follow what others tell us, especially if those others are doctors, etc. Breastfeeding, vaccinations, etc....all moms should feel like they are in control of the decisions about their kids, especially when it comes to their health, rather than just blindly putting faith in a doctor or hospital. Know your decisions and own them...trust your instincts.
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3 years ago ::
Aug 17, 2010 - 12:19PM
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Parenting is a commitment, for better or worse. Don't give up when the going gets rough because like Annie said, what we as parents do does matter, a LOT. It's hard to be tough and hold the disciplinary line sometimes, but it's worth it.
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2 years ago ::
Feb 03, 2011 - 11:14PM
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In my opinion, breastfeeding is sooo important. If there are any moms out there that want to breastfeed but have super-sensitive nipples,inverted nipples, or babies are having trouble latching, try NIPPLE SHIELDS. They are amazing. I swear by these. You can get them at Babies R Us.
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2 years ago ::
Feb 06, 2011 - 2:00PM
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"The less lovable they are, the more they need the love." There are always going to be days like today when my kids are sick and cranky and misbehaving and I just want to lock myself in my room and cry. Those are the days when my kids need me most and I know that if I just shower them with unconditional love and do what is best for them that they'll grow up healthy, happy and loving me right back.
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