one thing is really irking me. i want to get my son's name in binary code running down my back starting at the base of my neck;my husband is COMPLETELY against it. I'm 24, spent the first half of my life under the rule of a controlling and bi-polar mother who tried to "model me" into what she thought the perfect daughter should be. anyway, i feel that my self expression is once again being held hostage by my husband...i know i should probably be like my bitchy sister in-law and just bow down to my husband and "not go against his wishes" but i'm a very strong personality and tattoos are part of what define me....I'm not like tatted up, more like Angelina Jolie-isque...not like Kat Von D or anything...so what gives? me and my husband have been fighting over this tattoo issue and personally i don't care anymore. i'm getting the tattos because i love my son;if my husband can't accept me for the person i've become after motherhood, then should we be together?