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anger issues
3 years ago  ::  Oct 10, 2010 - 4:39PM #1

I know some of you saw my post on FB. But I just can't handle Colby's anger issues anymore. It's not like I am getting mad or angry myself it's just I feel so bad for him.  I really don't get frustrated, I don't let myself. But when he hits and starts crying because he gets put in time out it makes me want to cry knowing he just can't tell me what's wrong and he doesn't understand when I tell him he can't do things.


It's like he goes from this "I love you mommy" state to hitting me because I won't let him crawl under the computer table. If it wasn't dangerous with all the wires I would go ahead and let him do it since I know he is still just learning things.


I feel like he is in time out way too much. I never really make him stay long, just long enough to cool down and then we have a talk. But like today he just gets so angry that he's banging his head against the wall and crying so hard snot is running EVERYWHERE. Then when I walked up to him he grabbed me and wouldn't let me go like he thought I was abandoning him. It really broke my heart....but then again it could just be my hormones.

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3 years ago  ::  Oct 11, 2010 - 6:54PM #2

I wonder if its the terrilble two's? Kara is having issues with throwing tantrums and fits when she gets told no or told to go to her room (she gets sent to her room until she calms down).  the last few times that she got in trouble she basically runs and litterally throws both feet in the air and falls flat on her back (and hits her head on the floor) Its a very scary thing to see and hear I am afraid she is going to give herself a concusion, she has done this at least 3 times that I know of. 


Its hard on us as parents to see our little ones going through this but we have stand our ground and make them realize that these tantrums they throw and the way they act is not going to get them what they want.  I honestly don't know what to tell you because I am sort of going through it myself but all I know is I understand what you are going through and I hope he starts acting better for you.  I know I hate seeing Kara act that way but I have to stnad my ground and make sure she knows that she will not get her way.  and I know its alot harder on you because being pregnant and emotional its hard on your nerves. 

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3 years ago  ::  Oct 12, 2010 - 3:40PM #3

I read that tots emotions are all over at this age because of growth and development. Most of the time kids don't know what they are doing and why they feel angery but they don't know why. The example I read was it's like on during AF, we are all emotional and for who knows why.

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