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8 months ago ::
Oct 09, 2012 - 4:54PM
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Well-
Its official. Through all the chaos we've been through, tons of joy, stress of money. I started a part time job on Saturday and Sundays to help financially and save not paying daycare, I havent worked full time in almost a year now. Money has been tighter than normal. I've been throwing up off and on, which for me anyday is normal like that, I have troubles with eating too much food/not enough but Sunday was different and then I was sick again yesterday which I thought was from working 9.5 hrs on 2 hrs of sleep. Took a pregnancy test today and its positive, we are having another baby! I don't know how or when I will tell my fiance(by the way I was planning our wedding for spring of next year...looks like another delay). Hes so stressed out from trying to support our family, not to mention he has 4 kids of his own, including the one we have together and I have one from a previous relationship. I might wait until I get an appointment since I've had two miscarriages before my one year old graced us. I just needed to tell someone since I don't have any close friends any more and my family wouldn't understand my excitement(I know that with my fiance having 3 kids of his own that he didnt want anymore, especially after the arrival of our daughter, he did mention last night when I was sick if I was prego so maybe that will make it easier). I just need someone to be excited for me. I've always wanted 3-4 kids of my own and now with 3, I'm overly excited for myself, just not for the disappointment from others. Sorry for venting
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8 months ago ::
Oct 09, 2012 - 6:02PM
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Congrats!!! I am from the October board but pop over her once in a while!! I am pregnant again and expecting in May. Very excited for you and I'm sure things will work out great. Sounds like maybe your dh is already thinking you are pregnant so he will take it well!! Sorry for your losses as well. I have had 3 of my own so I feel the same way about waiting to tell others until your appt. GL and keep us updated!
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8 months ago ::
Oct 10, 2012 - 2:13AM
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Congrats! I can understand your anxieties, but I'm glad you are happy with it. More babies on the way! Yay!
Let us know how things progress.
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8 months ago ::
Oct 10, 2012 - 9:35AM
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Congratulations! It was quite a shock when I found myself pregnant as well this time. We planned for Katie to be our last one, but I guess there were other plans. I didn't even tell my husband until I was 8 1/2 weeks along. He was upset at first, but then he calmed down. After all, what are you going to do? As he reminded me, we've had tough situations before, and we've always got through them, and we'll get through this, too. I'm actually starting to get excited about the thought of another baby, but we haven't told anyone else besides our girls yet. Everything will work out!!
Christine Mom to: Jasmine(16), Kirsten(12), Ana(11), Catherine (1) 
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7 months ago ::
Oct 28, 2012 - 1:12AM
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Wow you've got a lot going on! It's so stressful when you can't work full time and don't have enough money coming in to pay for daycare so you can. Hugs for you girl. I say take your time telling anyone. Get that appt under your belt before you tell your fiance and then trust your gut from there.
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