Why is mother hood so hard but it is so beautiful to be a parent in a single mother and i try as hard as i possibke can to m,ake sure they dont want for anything my son is a two and a half year old and is very active he take a lot of my energy but my daughter is a 4 month old you might as well say and loves to be held all day i give in all the time because the crying drives me insane. but it is okay i stilllove them unconditionally